When it comes to sex, there’s a whole lot more than just getting your rocks off. For some, this comes as no great revelation, but for many, orgasms are considered a necessary part of every sexual encounter. Now sure, getting off is great, but sometimes you could bang it out for hours and your orgasm is just a blip. Some of us won’t even cum at all! Why put all your focus on the cherry and miss out on the whole sundae? Let’s change the game.Fuck the script. Let’s make sex about sex, not just cumming.
First order of business: Let’s make out. Remember how fun making out used to be? Yeah, it still is! When did making out turn into merely a vehicle for getting laid? There’s often more fun, anticipation, and intimacy in a little tongue than there is in actual intercourse. Let’s bring the intimacy back. Tell your girlfriend its homework.
Then, there are trigger points. Now, we’re not talking about what’s between your sweet legs, we’re talking about the nape of your neck, and that place just behind your knee; we’re talking about those special areas of the body that make your hair stand on end, and require no genital stimulation. Find yours, find your partner’s, and bring home the excitement.
When you’re not concerned with always getting off you can bring other joys into actual intercourse. Let’s take for instance the classic dip and wiggle: You’re bangin’ it out with your partner, you’re dippin in, you’re dippin in, you’re dippin in, now muster some control… pull out! “Put it back in! Touch it again!” Now, watch your partner wiggle. Enjoy the wiggle. Feel the wiggle. Know the wiggle. Now, get back to dippin’. Rinse. And. Repeat.
Make a Sunday about the sundae, and bring the fun back to the bedroom.
Check out our Booty Jams episode 37 to learn more about how to tease your partner, and change the sex game up.